Last week was the 178th Semiannual General Conference of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. One of the talks that was given by President Thomas S. Monson particularly had an impact on me. He talked about finding joy in the journey of our lives. This is something that I need to work on in my own life, and I have been trying to apply this principle this past week. It really has made a difference in my overall attitude. I know that my life isn't "perfect," and I can certainly identify things that I wish were different, but you know what?! Generally speaking, my life is very, very good! I am very blessed, and I need to spend more time being grateful for all of the good things about my life, and not dwell on things that aren't quite the way I would like them to be! Here are some quotes from the talk...great words from a great man:
"This is our one and only chance at mortal life—here and now. The longer we live, the greater is our realization that it is brief. Opportunities come, and then they are gone. I believe that among the greatest lessons we are to learn in this short sojourn upon the earth are lessons that help us distinguish between what is important and what is not. I plead with you not to let those most important things pass you by as you plan for that illusive and non-existent future when you will have time to do all that you want to do. Instead, find joy in the journey—now."
"Stresses in our lives come regardless of our circumstances. We must deal with them the best we can. But we should not let them get in the way of what is most important—and what is most important almost always involves the people around us. Often we assume that they must know how much we love them. But we should never assume; we should let them know. Wrote William Shakespeare, “They do not love that do not show their love.” We will never regret the kind words spoken or the affection shown. Rather, our regrets will come if such things are omitted from our relationships with those who mean the most to us."
"Send that note to the friend you’ve been neglecting; give your child a hug; give your parents a hug; say “I love you” more; always express your thanks. Never let a problem to be solved become more important than a person to be loved."
"Let us relish life as we live it, find joy in the journey, and share our love with friends and family. One day each of us will run out of tomorrows."
"Our realization of what is most important in life goes hand in hand with gratitude for our blessings."
"Despite the changes which come into our lives and with gratitude in our hearts, may we fill our days—as much as we can—with those things which matter most. May we cherish those we hold dear and express our love to them in word and in deed."